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I am currently working through the steps in his book.I would like to hear your perspective on reconciling the tenets of deeper dating (openness and establishing intimacy as a point of departure, rather than as the end point of a waiting game) with the seeming infinite patience required to not pursue men, not discuss relationship status/marriage, and not push a desire for emotional connection on men while in a relationship as not to scare them away.It seems these perspectives are mutually exclusive. Is it possible to start from a place of deep connection with someone, discuss your true desires for your romantic life (including marriage, children), and not scare them away?
You see the humanity inside every man, and get beyond the general biographical patter that dots most early dates.
It just means we were never going to see each other again, so we let it all hang out and got real in our first meeting.
I would guess you tend to assign greater meaning to going deep than it should really be assigned.
I’m only telling you the same thing I would tell anyone, male or female, in any situation: is your methodology effective or ineffective? Because it doesn’t matter if you like it or if it resonates or if it makes sense to you.
If you take it out for a spin in the real world and no one is responding to your desire to get intense from the get-go, well, then, maybe you have to adjust and find a middle ground that works better.